Next in life.

As I move into the next stage in my life, I am returning to Religious Life. In that I just turned 50, there are no, non-contemplative, Religious Orders that I have been able to find, that have a Charism that fits with what I feel called to.

So, in order to correct to that problem, I have decided, after MUCH prayer and contemplation to open a new Order, one that accepts any Catholic male in communion with the Roman Catholic Church, from (edited to add) at least the age of 18 to …. They must be of 18 years of age, in communion with the Church, and healthy at the time of entry into the Order. There is no upper age limit, provided they meet those requirements.

You can read more about the Order here. It’s name is “The Order of Brothers of Reconciliation”, and it is a 501c3 compliant Kentucky Corporation, currently a Lay Order, pending approval by the Bishop of Lexington as a Religious Order. We live by a Rule of Life, give the vow of obedience, chastity and poverty, living in community but working “in the world”. The doors are open now for Postulates!

The life changes continue…

Archbishop Favalor, the Archbishop of the Archdiocese of Miami, has disbanded and closed the Order of Brothers and Sisters of Reconciliation, releasing the Brothers and Sister from any vows they may have made, and has asked that they either apply to other, existing Orders, or return to Lay life. (I won’t go into the reasons he gave, but I feel they are probably valid…)

So, in that vein I am in the process of interviewing, and being interviewed by, a Franciscan Order now. Pray for me. (I’m outside of their age group for becoming a new Brother with them, so this may take a while..)

If you have my email address of donb@orderbsr.org, that address will cease to exist in early November of this year. Please change your address book to show me at either or , both of which are active and running already. (And I check both often!)

May the Grace of our good Lord be with you always!

The Brothers and Sisters of Reconcilidation and Me…

Things continue to advance with the Brothers and Sisters of Reconciliation. We need a major growth spurt, but things are moving on. I was able to put on my habit two weeks ago:

after completing a long Retreat on the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and the seamstress FINALLY finishing it.

Last weekend I went to another Retreat, this time a silent one! Was a good time of contemplation and prayer. You can see where I was by going here.

Next I will be finding a job, hopefully in the Church or at a Catholic school. It is looking like I will be going to Seminary late next year. This will be a six year program, after which I will have a Bachelors in Philosophy and a Masters in Theology. I need two years of Philosophy, and Sacred Heart in Wisconsin has a six year program that gets both covered, and gives you the two degrees in the process. Looking forward to it!

Why the Catholic Church for me?

Over the last year and a half, as I have told people about my decision to convert to the Catholic Church as my faith center, I have had many people ask me “WHY?” (and in some cases “shouting it”!). So, after some thought about sharing why, I decided to write this, and schedule it to release while I am away on a 30 day prayer and contemplation retreat (returning on the 8th of June 2008).

When I turned 15, for 3 years every night, I had a dream about being a monk. I can remember trying to change my habit from that of the dream to an all black or all brown habit and white rope of the Roman Catholic Monks I had seen on TV or of the orange habit of the Buddhist Monks. I kept going back to the brown on white habit with a blue rope in the dreams, no matter how hard I tried to change it.

As many of you know (and if you read the whole blog, it’s here already), for the past 20 plus years I have been a Shaman (or priest) of the Mescalero Tribe of the Apache Nation. At the time of my life when I was introduced to this Nation, through what is now my Blood Brother George, I felt that the beliefs of the Tribe and Nation very closely followed what I felt in life. I learned the stories of the Nation, their love for the planet earth and all that the Great Spirit/Giver-of-Life (God) gave them, etc. During this time in my life, I felt there was still more out there to learn.

Every time I drove by the Knights of Columbus Halls out there, I had a strong desired to go inside and see what it took to become a Knight within their Halls. Over the last few years before converting to the Catholic Faith, I had a strong feeling that I would become a Knight through the Knights of Columbus… It was a STRONG feeling.

For most of the years 2004, 2005 and 2006 I did a lot of research into religion and faith systems. I looked into the Jewish faith, which was the faith of Moses, Abraham, David, and most of those God chose to his side in the Old Testament which is used by the Christian faiths and the Jewish. I looked into the Muslim faiths, which are an offshoot of the Jewish faith from a line of descendants from Abraham. I looked deeper into the Buddhist and other Eastern faiths. I looked into the Orthodox Catholic cult. (Cult to me is not a bad word in this case, all religions are cults in the original sense of the word. It is only “today” that cult has a bad meaning behind it, and wrongly so in my eyes. SOME cults are bad, some aren’t, and all religions are, by definition a cult.) I looked into the various Protestant church, especially the Methodist, which is what I was raised as until I turned 20ish.

In all of this research, I read at the Bible. (I didn’t REALLY start reading it until January of last year when I finally settled down and began studying the Catholic Church under Father Francis at Saint Henry Roman Catholic Church in Pompano Beach Florida.) In my readings, I found that I was leaning more and more towards the Catholic Church, as I was getting the feelings inside me that it was the Church that was initially founded on the actions and words of Jesus Christ, who I was earnestly coming to believe was the Messiah foretold in the Old Testament in no uncertain terms.

As I looked at the various Protestant Christian systems out there here in the US, I found that each had be created by someone that had been wronged or didn’t like something that was happening in the Roman Catholic Church, which they were a member of. For example, the Methodist Church, which I was most familiar with was created by John Wesley, who was originally a Priest with the Anglican (or Church of England) Church, but had a desire to make changes, which the Church did not accept. So, he split off and formed the Methodist Church. (A lot more than that happened, and lead to the split, but that’s a rough, and I do mean rough, summation of it!)

The same appears to be true for most of the other Christian faith systems.

While I do not believe that the Roman Catholic Church is infallible, I do believe that PEOPLE within the Church, including Priest, have made some bad choices, probably listening to themselves, and not open up to the Word of God, and done some wrong things. I do feel that Jesus appointed Peter to lead Jesus’ flock in the pursuit of love and the will of God. I do feel that he assigned the other Apostles of Christ to create the basis of the “leadership” of the Church, or the Bishops. I do believe that the Pope sits in the position of the first Pope, Saint Peter.

I do not believe that the Pope is infallible, but then again, nor does the Roman Catholic Church, contrary to the popular belief of others! I do believe that a good Pope will listen to his Flock as well as to God through Prayer, reading the Word, and consultation with his fellow Bishops.

In my research, I feel, strongly, in my heart that the over all dogma of the Roman Catholic Church is correct and follows the intent and Word of the Bible. I like that it is one of the few Churches that has services seven days a week. That the Priest are dedicated to the Church and do not work in any other capacity. (Yes, some teach, some work in offices, etc., but in all cases, they are religious related postings.) That you can go to any Mass/Service on the same day anywhere in the World and know what is happening and know in advance what is being read and said (minus the Homily or “speech” by the Priest, which is always individual for the most part). That over a three year period, if you go to Mass seven days a week, you will have had the entire Bible read to you and explained to you. (Many of the Protestant Church get fixed on one or two or three Books in the Bible and go back to the often through out the year, and they leave out books that they don’t understand or like or ….)

Upon looking at the various faith systems out there, I felt a sense of relief as I grew closer and closer to converting to the Roman Catholic Church and the few times I moved in directions towards other faiths, I felt a sadness of heart. At each point this past year, as I was accepted as a Postulate with the Order of Brothers and Sisters of Reconciliation last year, as I was accepted into and confirmed in the Catholic Church earlier this year , and as the Order accepted the past year as my Novitiate year and accepted my initial Vows as a Full Religious Brother/Friar in the Order, I felt that relief intensify.

As I go to the Eucharistic Mass daily, participate in the rituals and readings, help others settle their issues with the Lord, pray daily and often in a day, I feel more and more that I have done the right thing in life.

Knights of Columbus

Well, this weekend was busy but good! Friday night I was accepted into the Knights of Columbus and received my 1st and 2nd Degree’s in the Knights. On Saturday I received my 3rd Degree and was Knighted. All is moving along well for me in my new path of life. I should probably have listened to the calling earlier in my life when I started receiving it….

Life is good!

A misconception…

I have heard many people say now that I am a Friar I am no longer able to raise any money from working, etc, because I took a vow of poverty. This is not 100% true. I am still able to earn an income to feed myself and my Brothers, so I am able to accept donations and an income for work done. As much as you want. If it’s more than I need to “survive” I give the “overage” to the Order to keep it surviving, or if a Brother has a need, I give it to them, or if another person outside the Order is in need, I would give them some as well.

So, yes, Friar’s working in the World are able to accept money from you, and in most cases could probably use it!